Becoming female...whatever that means!

As I understand it, serious minded TGirls like to present as a woman as far as possible but recently I've begun to think again about what that actually means.   Is it to do with the clothes? I have more skirts and dresses than most women and I bet my undies are prettier than many girls wear.   Is it about adopting feminine mannerisms and poses?  Over the years, I've certainly worked on my walk, gestures and nuances.   Is it about what interest us?  I have a number of interests that are traditionally much more associated with women than men.   Is it about how we empathise and relate to others?  Now, that's an interesting one because it is deeper than any of the aforementioned and its existence is ultimately affirmed not by anything we do but by how others, especially women, relate to us.   It’s when we have that sudden sense of awareness that a female friend is talking to us as she would to another woman rather than a man.   Years of wearing the clothes, walking the walk and absorbing women's vocabulary, interests and tastes undoubtedly are very important in that process but perhaps it is even more dependent on the consideration that the starting point is our innate (female/feminine) personality that we learn to free.